Thursday, October 23

LOVE THAT DIED SLOWLY…

This is the story of the fragility of relationships. Rajveer got his first taste of this when he was in Class X and his father died of a heart attack. More than his death, Rajveer was upset about lighting the pyre, afraid his father would get burn.


The family was financially secure. His two older sisters were settled, his mother was a teacher and his father had left them a huge bungalow. Eventually, Rajveer came to terms with his father’s death. A brilliant student, he cleared the boards with good marks, got admission in a city engineering college and topped in the first semester.


It was in the second semester that tragedy struck. He developed fever which did not abate for 15 days. Their family physician assured his mother that there was a nothing to worry and prescribed medicines. But, on night, Rajveer’s fever shot up as if his body was on fire and was admitted in a hospital. After five injections, the fever subsided. When Rajveer woke up he was terrified to find that lower half of his body which had gone numb and rajveer stayed home for two months. No doctor could diagnose what went wrong with him


But, one evening he told his mother. ‘I will go to college tomorrow. I have to fulfill father’s dream. “Initially his friends helped him but later Rajveer started managing on his own. Despite being physically challenged, he worked hard and became an engineer. After college he set up a factory which became a successful venture.


His mother urged him to get married, but Rajveer was reluctant knowing of his disability. One day, Rajveer called his mother to the factory and introduced her to Mansi, his personal secretary. “She wants to marry me. I have been discouraging her, but she won’t listen. He told his mother. But, later they got married. Mansi stopped working in the factory and began pursuing a degree in MA.


Mansi was caring wife. Rajveer was happy like never before. They had two children – Vishvesh, 4 and Hetva 2. Every evening, she would take him out on a drive. After her MA, Mansi became a lecturer in a college. One evening, Mansi took Rajveer for a drive as usual. After seven years of marriage this drive was different. She parked the car and said, “I want to live like normal woman. I have fallen in love with a colleague and want to marry him. I would like a Divorce”


A shocked Rajveer asked her what would happen to the kids. “You can keep them, I have no objection.” Rajveer felt the pain of his disability like never before. But he divorced her and she left. Now, he takes care of his children, who are everything to him.


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It’s a true story from Ahmedabad, I came across in TOI. I shared with few friends about their views and surprisingly few girls responded Mansi was right. I would also like to know your views….

19 comments:

  1. she was wrong,i think her mentality always changing depending upon time.one who marry her again he should think about this matter. so that other person may not fail in his life like rajveer



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  2. I feel Mansi was wrong , this shows how selfish she is n also there is no guarantee that she will be with him(colleague) fr long

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  3. she was wrong,i think her mentality always changing depending upon time. other person should thing about this matter while marrying her so, that no one fail in life like Rajveer. rajveer should take care his children

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  4. Hey Girls, Not girls womens, what happen to you, how you can become selfish, what if you hubby dumb u after 7 years when you need him most! Think 1000 times before doing any such chip act. Think about ur mothers and grand mothers , if they might had thought like u what happend!

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  5. Hey Allwyn,

    I feel She did right thing, because she felt many times that some body should be their who pampered and touched her. It is also true that she has to think before marriage but destinies will not every one's hand and i though that fellow should forget everything whatever time spent with her wife. He has to live with his Strength what he had earlier before marriage

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  6. mean girl.....she should have understand things before..if u marry u have to accept the person......how he or she is...dont change ur point of view....and what will his kids do.......

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  7. Mansi is wrong and selfishness.
    Every woman should forget her past after her marriage.Her effect on her children is very bad.This type of girl could not live with any person for long time.

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  8. Thats very bad..

    I would not accept Mansi's decision, She should have given a thought before betraying someone.

    She misused Rajveer's freedom, In spite of well settled business he allowed her to be free and she simply misused the freedom.

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  9. we never take the decision at this times, always going side by side of way, because both the way are painful to us. even if she live with Rajveer then also she is not satisfied with him. May we think that she has made her way fully clear without any thing else that's good, but 90% people mind thinks for himself first. Has the Rajveer father die in her young age. we would feel same for Rajveer kids also, that her mother is no long for them. Always like to be transparent viewer for your life patner so that behind object can be veiwed to another person and he or she must be clear about it.
    Person with wrong impression and wrong faith always get more pain then knowing truth.

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  10. I believe that love does not bind you nor does it chain u from following ur heart, it frees you of boundaries and makes you one with ur love. I think it was most appropriate on Mansi’s part to do and say the things she said. If she had not and continued with an extra marital relationship which was discovered later it would have been more heart breaking. Then the husband would have said" why did u not tell me"?? And if she did discontinue and left her colleague whom she loved would she have been happy? If she was not happy would the kids and her husband be happy. Before passing a judgment try to place yourself in the others shoes objectively and then give an opinion is what i do. Just coz we have been conditioned to think of the other man / woman as negative characters does not mean they are. Nor, is second love in life…everything is circumstantial. However, I do agree that the kids should not have been left like this.

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  11. Hey Allwyn

    Thats really sad..

    How one can be so cold hearted. She has not only spoiled Rajveer's life but also two kids. But I feel that she will regret for this. Cosmic law of God. she will get a kick back soon or later.

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  12. I am no one to comment whether what she did was wrong or not because I have no idea about the intensity of the relationship she and Rajveer had. It seemd to me she had been a dutiful and caring person and maybe she craved for feelings and warmth which she might have found in her colleague. If she had hidden things from her husband and then broken the relationship, then it would have been very traumatic for Rajveer and her kids as it would have left deep mental scars in their lives for years to come.

    She was cold enough to not worry about the kids, but she might have anticipated that accepting a new man might be difficult for her kids. She might have deliberately appeared cold for her kids so that her kids may support their father and Rajveer finds a support in his kids.

    My personal view is that she did a right thing by telling the truth and evading many volcanoes in the life of her husband and kids. And her punishment or nature's action is she had to leave her kids and a man like Rajveer who is so poised and a man with so much Integrity.

    I think I want to pat Rajveer for letting go off someone he loves and being such a rock solid brave person.

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  13. My personal view is, MAnsi did a right thing but telling the truth to her husband. That doesn't mean what she did was right. Had she been hideous of her acts, her relationship would have broken in a very bad way with Rajveer which would have left many deep mental scars in his life and their kids lives.

    She was truthful, caring and dutifil for 7 years, but she is already paying the price by not being with her her kids (what greater punishment can a woman have who has to leave her kids)and man of integrity like Rajveer who let go off someone he loved so much.


    Peace for all

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  14. Hey Sharing Knowledge.

    I appreciate your response...

    Just need a small answer...
    When she get involved with Rajveer, whose decision it was?....

    if you say that was time demand factor, den what is now?....

    How can you be sure that Now she wont be doing the same thing... When she cannot be with the person and kids with whom she lived happily for 7 years, what is the assurity that she will no go?....

    yaar if atall i agree tht rajveer was inefficient in giving her a gud life... but wat abu those two kids?... she fell in love but did she ever bothered tht she has kids?... she has resp?...

    No... wen u cannot be mature enough den how can u say tht this decision is perfect?..

    Sorry to ask u... what wud u hav done if u were mansi?..

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  15. u showed peace for all... in second msg...

    but can u tell me?..

    who all are the people...

    jinko sahi me peace mila?.....

    those lovely kids or tht disable numb husband?..

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  16. u never know what comes ur way, when, where, how, why... it is up to u how u take it and respond to it... ideally speaking marriages in India are meant to be retained for life time...

    In this case, considering Rajveer and Mansi have spent 7 long years and that they have two kids, it is difficult to digest that such a problem has occured in their life... One need to look into the roots of their relationship before coming to any conclusion...

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  17. Rajveers is a great man of humanity..He let his DUMB WIFE GO as well as took the burden of taking care of his kids..Where as Mansi could only think of herself and not her kids.She must be a woman of selfishness and only can think of her pleasure..

    SACRIFICE is the BEST LOVE that I know of...Marry a person only if you can sacrifice and forgive him/her not just dumb them because of your selfishness and keep your pleasure above all . These kind of women are mostly feminist who think only of themselves but there are exceptional cases..Mansi is a disgrace to motherhood

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  18. I would never do something like Mansi did.

    HOWEVER.

    One should not judge. Love happens. Mansi took a courageous stand. It is VERY hard to leave your family for LOVE. This must be true love.

    As far as the man (Rajveer) it is better to have someone not live with you instead of live with you and love someone else.

    It is highly likely that Mansi never loved Rajveer and only used him????

    Regards
    Trupti Jani

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  19. social responsibilities are always taken above human feelings. here mansi was going beyond a set of social customs that she should spend her whole life with kids & paralised husband & hence she is taken wrong in all front. It is only woman like mansi who can explain what was the point to which they agreed to get married to person like rajveer. I have no explanation for her act. Was it love, lust, money or lack of mental stability to take decison which affects of normal people life directly ???

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